1、1People need to know one another to be at their honest best.人们需要相互了解才能达到最诚实的境界。2The true friendship seeks to give，not take；to help，not to be helped；to minister，not to be ministered.真正的友谊追求的是给予，而不是索取；是帮助别人，而不是被人帮助；是为人服务，而不是被人服务。3A friend is easier lost than found.得朋友难，失朋友易。4Without words，in friendshi
2、p，all thoughts，all desires，all expectations，are silent joy and sharing.在友谊里，不用言语，一切的思想。一切的愿望，一切的希冀，都在无声的欢乐中发生并共享了。5Be slow in choosing a friend，slower in changing.选择朋友要谨慎，更换朋友要更谨慎。Mary Allen was my best friendlike the sister I never had.We did everything together：piano lessons，movies，swimming and ho
3、rseback riding.When I was 13，my family moved away.Mary and I kept in touch through letters and we saw each other on special occasions.One day a card that I sent came back stamped “Address Unknown”Over the years，I thought of Mary often.I wanted to share stories of my children and then grandchildren.A
4、nd I needed to share my sadness when my brother and then mother died.There was an empty place in my heart that only a friend like Mary could fill.One day I was reading the newspaper when I noticed a photo of a young woman who looked a lot like Mary and I wrote to her anyway.She called as soon as she
5、 got my letter.I heard a voice and recognized it immediately，even after 40 years.We laughed and cried and caught up on each others lives.Now the empty place in my heart is filled.We dont lose each other again.Many teenagers find it hard to make friends.It is NOT! Here are some ways for them.Make the
6、 first move.Dont be shy，because it wont help you in anything.Look around for someone that seems interesting，and then talk to them.A good subject to talk about to anyone is music，because almost everybody likes music.You can ask someone what kind of music they like and start a cool conversation with t
7、hem and even find things in common.Other topics could be movies or sports.Keep away from those subjects like politics，religion，relationship problems and drama.Be nice.How do you expect them to like you if you are not nice? Put a calm smile on your face and find out what you and the person you are tr
8、ying to befriend have in common.Youll be able to be more comfortable if you find out that the other person has things in common with you.Be a good listener.Pay attention to what they say，look straight in their eyes and show youre paying attention.Its important to be a good listener，because everyone
9、likes to be heard.If this person feels like youre listening to them，your new friend will enjoy talking with you more.Develop friendships.You may talk to someone now but soon theyll forget you if you stop.Youd better take a time to say hi to them every day and ask how theyre doing.Say their names as
10、often as you can.If you do that every day，theyll be happy that you care about them and remember them，so they wont forget you and they will become your good friends.【探索发现】1Read the passage carefully to think of a suitable title for it.How to make friends2What is a good subject to start a conversation with a stranger according to the passage？Why?Music.Because almost everybody likes music.3What should you do when you listen to others speaking?Look straight in their eyes.
