1、话题一良好的人际关系与社会交往(A)A2019安徽示范高中高三考试“Joe? Is that you？” The woman speaking to me at the baseball game looked a little familiar. “Marci？” I asked. “It is you！”she cried out, smiling broadly. “Its good to see you again！”It was good to see Marci, too. Off and on during the past few decades, Ive wondered a
2、bout her. I almost tried to search for her a few years ago after talking to a friend who had indicated that the 1990s had been pretty rough for Marci. So meeting her at the baseball game was really a surprise.We spent a few minutes talking about our lives the good old, bad old days. Then Marci grew
3、quiet for a moment, “You know, Joe，”she said，“Ive always wanted to tell you how.how. sorry I am for the way I treated you. You must have been hurt both physically and mentally. ”I was a little embarrassed. I turned and looked at her.“Its OK，” I said，“No big deal！”“But I was such a jerk，” she continu
4、ed. Yes, you were, I thought.“We were both pretty young，”I smiled.“I know，”she said.“Its just always bothered me, remembering how mean I was to you. And Ive wanted to tell you that Im sorry.” The expression on her face was warm and sincere. And there was something in her eyes it looked a lot like re
5、lief.“OK，” I said. “Apology accepted！” Overcome by the sweetness of the moment, I reached an arm around her and gave her a quick hug. Just then, the crowd erupted with a huge cheer, and Marci and I both returned our attention to the game. By the time I looked over to where she had been, she was gone
6、. But the warm, wonderful feeling of our brief exchange was still there, and continues to this day whenever I think about it.It isnt enough to just say “Im sorry” and “Youre forgiven”. But when those words are truly felt and sincerely expressed, they can open the door to miracles of the heart. Forgi
7、veness can bring peace to an injured soul even years after the fact. Even at a baseball game.体裁：记叙文题材：个人经历主题：原谅创造的奇迹【文章大意】本文是一篇记叙文。“我”在棒球赛场见到了多年未见的朋友Marci。她见到“我”后为以前那样对待“我”向“我”真诚地道歉，“我”立刻原谅了她。之后我们都感觉到温暖和愉快。【难句分析】I almost tried to search for her a few years ago after talking to a friend who had indic
8、ated that the 1990s had been pretty rough for Marci.分析：该句为主从复合句。句中“who had indicated that the 1990s had been pretty rough for Marci”为who引导的定语从句，修饰先行词a friend，who 在从句中作主语；该从句又含有that引导的宾语从句“that the 1990s had been pretty rough for Marci”，作及物动词indicated的宾语。译文：几年前，我和一个朋友聊天，那个朋友暗示20世纪90年代对Marci来说相当艰难，之后我
9、几乎想要找她了。1What kind of life did Marci live during the late 20th century according to the passage?AHappy. BBusy.CHard. DSimple.答案与解析：C考查细节理解。根据第二段第三句“I almost tried to search for her a few years ago after talking to a friend who had indicated that the 1990s had been pretty rough for Marci”可知，在20世纪90年代
10、Marci生活得很艰难，故C项正确。【干扰项分析】A项意为“幸福的”，B项意为“忙碌的”，D项意为“简单的”，都与文意不符。2What does the underlined word “jerk” in the third paragraph mean?AA humorous person. BA cruel person.CA careless person. DAn honest person.答案与解析：B考查词义猜测。根据画线词下文中的“Its just always bothered me, remembering how mean I was to you”可知，当时她对“我”很
11、刻薄，这件事一直困扰着她，再结合画线词所在句可知，她认为她是一个刻薄的人；据此可知，画线词与B项含义相近，故B项正确。3Why did Marci look in relief after talking with the author?ABecause her favorite team won the game.BBecause she learned Joe was living a good life.CBecause she made an apology to the author.DBecause she found she was not mean any longer.答案与
12、解析：C考查细节理解。根据第三段中的“And Ive wanted to tell you that Im sorry.The expression on her face was warm and sincere.And there was something in her eyes it looked a lot like relief”可知，由于Marci向我真诚地道了歉，所以她的眼里露出了轻松，故C项正确。4What might be the best title for the passage?AExcitement of a Baseball GameBMental Burden
13、of a WomanCMiracles of ForgivenessDRelief of Finding a Friend答案与解析：C考查标题判断。通读全文可知，文章最后两句为全文的主题句；结合全文内容可知，本文通过讲述“我”接受朋友Marci的真诚道歉，体会到原谅可以抚慰受伤的心灵的故事，说明了原谅创造的奇迹，故C项最适合作为本文标题。B2018全国卷DWeve all been there: in a lift, in line at the bank or on an airplane, surrounded by people who are, like us, deeply foc
14、used on their smartphones or, worse, struggling with the uncomfortable silence.Whats the problem? Its possible that we all have compromised conversational intelligence. Its more likely that none of us start a conversation because its awkward and challenging, or we think its annoying and unnecessary.
15、 But the next time you find yourself among strangers, consider that small talk is worth the trouble. Experts say its an invaluable social practice that results in big benefits.Dismissing small talk as unimportant is easy, but we cant forget that deep relationships wouldnt even exist if it werent for
16、 casual conversation. Small talk is the grease (润滑剂)for social communication, says Bernardo Carducci, director of the Shyness Research Institute at Indiana University Southeast. “Almost every great love story and each big business deal begins with small talk，” he explains. “The key to successful sma
17、ll talk is learning how to connect with others, not just communicate with them.”In a 2014 study, Elizabeth Dunn, associate professor of psychology at UBC, invited people on their way into a coffee shop. One group was asked to seek out an interaction(互动) with its waiter; the other, to speak only when
18、 necessary. The results showed that those who chatted with their server reported significantly higher positive feelings and a better coffee shop experience. “Its not that talking to the waiter is better than talking to your husband，”says Dunn. “But interactions with peripheral (边缘的)members of our so
19、cial network matter for our wellbeing also.”Dunn believes that people who reach out to strangers feel a significantly greater sense of belonging, a bond with others. Carducci believes developing such a sense of belonging starts with small talk. “Small talk is the basis of good manners，” he says.体裁：说
20、明文题材：人际交往主题：闲聊的作用【文章大意】研究表明，闲聊对于人际交往起着重要的作用。【难句分析】Weve all been there: in a lift, in line at the bank or on an airplane, surrounded by people who are, like us, deeply focused on their smartphones or, worse, struggling with the uncomfortable silence. 分析：这是一个主从复合句。冒号后面的内容用来解释there的具体内容；surrounded by p
21、eople 是过去分词短语作状语；people后接who引导的定语从句，从句中like us作插入语，从句包含or连接的两个并列结构。 译文：我们都曾处于这样的场合在电梯里，在银行(排队的)队列里或在飞机上，我们周围的人，像我们一样，认真地关注着他们的智能手机，或者更糟的是，他们感觉孤寂无聊，无所事事。5What phenomenon is described in the first paragraph?AAddiction to smartphones.BInappropriate behaviours in public places.CAbsence of communication
22、between strangers.DImpatience with slow service.答案与解析：C考查细节理解。文章第一段描述了在公共场所人们之间不互相交流的现象，本段中的“uncomfortable silence”与选项C中的“Absence of communication”相呼应。6What is important for successful small talk according to Carducci?AShowing good manners.BRelating to other people.CFocusing on a topic.DMaking busin
23、ess deals.答案与解析：B考查细节理解。根据第三段中的“The key to successful small talk is learning how to connect with others, not just communicate with them”可知，Carducci认为成功的闲聊的关键在于学会与其他人沟通。7What does the coffeeshop study suggest about small talk?AIt improves family relationships.BIt raises peoples confidence.CIt matters
24、 as much as a formal talk.DIt makes people feel good.答案与解析：D考查细节理解。根据倒数第二段第三句“The results showed that those who chatted with their server reported significantly higher positive feelings and a better coffee shop experience”可知，闲聊使得人们感觉良好。选D项。8What is the best title for the text?AConversation CountsBWa
25、ys of Making Small TalkCBenefits of Small TalkDUncomfortable Silence答案与解析：C考查标题判断。通读全文可知，文章主要讨论了闲聊在人际交往中的重要作用。C项作本文标题最佳。C2019武汉训练It could have been any of us, but it happened to be me. I received a brief 18 months of undivided attention and love as the only child, before three more appeared. The sec
26、ond was a severe blow. No doubt, learning the need to share was important, but I had tasted the life of an only child.Then came years of requests to look after the siblings (兄弟姐妹), being urged that, “You should be setting a better example.” Again and again the others got away with doing wrong but I
27、didnt. We each played our roles: the second one who later skipped school to meet boys; the ever so attractive third, the boy who could do no wrong; and finally the surprise appearance of the fourth, who seemed certain to be spoiled. So that left me: the reasonable, quiet one who got the grades, did
28、the housework and became a chameleon (善变的人)skilled at reading a situation and being what was needed.Then eventually came the chance to be the first to leave and experience life outside, not defined (给下定义) as the eldest. The moment I had waited for. But now, many years later, being the eldest matters
29、 again. Its down to me to take the lead in caring for our parents. All the time I was made to learn about sharing; however, when it comes to responsibility, it no longer seems to apply. The others are too busy, too far away, or too unconcerned. So dutifully I travel many times across the country for
30、 hours to provide care and support. Requests to my siblings to help out more fall on deaf ears. To me, the dutiful firstborn, it feels like the right and only thing to do; to be there for our parents as they were for us. Sadly, that feeling isnt shared by the second, third or fourth.体裁：记叙文题材：家庭生活主题：
31、责任与担当【文章大意】本文是一篇记叙文。作者在弟弟妹妹出生之前享受着父母亲全部的关心和爱，但随着弟弟妹妹的出生，作者必须承担照顾他们的责任。成年后，作者还要承担照顾父母亲的责任，作者觉得那是应该的事情，但其弟弟妹妹却没有这种责任感。【难句分析】Then came years of requests to look after the siblings(兄弟姐妹)，being urged that，“You should be setting a better example.”分析：本句是一个完全倒装句。副词Then放在句首，整个句子要全部倒装。译文：随后几年便是照顾兄弟姐妹，这就驱策你树立好
32、榜样。9How does the writer comment on the four children in the second paragraph?AAngrily and bitterly. BAngrily and proudly.CBitterly and humorously. DHumorously and proudly.答案与解析：C考查推理判断。根据第二段中的“the second one who later skipped school to meet boys；the ever so attractive third, the boy who could do no
33、wrong；and finally the surprise appearance of the fourth，who seemed certain to be spoiled”可推知，作者在第二段中对四个孩子的评论是充满苦涩和幽默的。10How did the writer develop his social skills?AThrough hard work.BWith the parents help.CAt the parents request.DIn practice for effectiveness.答案与解析：C考查推理判断。根据第二段中的“Then came years
34、of requests to look after the siblings (兄弟姐妹)，being urged that，You should be setting a better example.”和“So that left me.being what was needed”可推知，作者是在父母亲的要求下发展自己的社交能力的。11What does the underlined word “it” in the last paragraph refer to?ATo care for our parents. BTo help the young.CTo live outside a
35、lone. DTo travel nationwide.答案与解析：A考查代词指代。根据上文中的“to take the lead in caring for our parents”和画线词所在句后的“to be there for our parents”可知，此处it指照顾父母。12What can we learn from the text?AThe writer hates to be the eldest.BThe writer feels proud of his role.CThe writer is satisfied with his attempt.DThe writer is regretful about the siblings.答案与解析：D考查推理判断。根据最后一段中的“Sadly，that feeling isnt shared by the second，third or fourth”可推知，作者对弟弟妹妹的表现感到遗憾。
