1、原文标题：Lonely in South Korea (1/3)内容简介：概括：情人节临近，一起来听听和爱情有关的建议吧Hints：Valentines DayKaren RuskinDr. Karens Marriage Manual.Tuesday is Valentines Day. So this is a good time to report that our new relationship advice blog has been getting a lot of comments. The advice comes from you, our audience. Englis
2、h learners get to practice their writing while helping other people solve real-life problems. This week, as promised, we also asked an expert to offer some advice. Karen Ruskin is a marriage and family therapist. She also wrote the advice book, Dr. Karens Marriage Manual. We explored first the probl
3、em sent by a Chinese man. He is studying medical chemistry in South Korea. His girlfriend of several years plans to move to South Korea herself. She plans to study the Korean language at the same university. However, the mans mother disapproves. He says she is concerned that her son will not keep up
4、 with his studies because of the added responsibility of his girlfriend. He says his family has told him if he does not end the relationship they may stop giving him money. Dr. Ruskin praised the relationship between the man and his mother. Thats lovely that he has a connection with his mother and i
5、t matters to him what she thinks. But, she says it is important to note that a 25-year-old man is old enough to decide who his girlfriend should be. And, she says, a person of that age should be able to handle several responsibilities at a time. A 25-year-old absolutely can achieve school success, w
6、ork success and be in a serious relationship and manage that in a healthy way.星期二是情人节。这是个不错的时机告诉大家我们新建的关系咨询博客收到了许多的评论。这些建议来自于我们的听众。英语学习者们在帮助他人解决实际问题的同时也锻炼了写作能力。本周，如我们承诺的那样，我们邀请到了一位专家给我们出出主意。Karen Ruskin是婚姻和家庭理疗师。她还写过一本名叫博士Karen的婚姻指南的咨询书。我们先来讨论由一个中国男人提出的问题。他在韩国学习医药化学。他交往了几年的女友也计划去韩国跟他在同一所大学里学习韩语。但是，男方母亲不同意。他母亲担心他会因为照顾女朋友所产生的额外责任心导致学业荒废。他家里人甚至威胁他如果不和女友分手就切断他的经济来源。Ruskin博士赞扬了他和他母亲之间的关系。“他和他母亲能保持这样的关系还不错。母亲的想法对他其实很重要。”但是她称很有必要指出，作为一个25岁的男人，他已经足够成熟去选择女朋友。她还补充，这样年纪的一个人应该有能力在同时承担不同的责任。“25岁这个岁数的人，显然已经能够找到一个合适的方法去处理好努力学习，用心工作以及培养和经营一段感情之间的关系。”.高考资源网w。w-w*k&s%5￥u高考资源网w。w-w*k&s%5￥u